Showing posts with label shower. Show all posts
Showing posts with label shower. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 2, 2017

CAREGIVER CHRONICLES: Bathing While On The Road


Last week, Tim recounted what's in store for him at shower time. I'd like to expand on that on what it's like to give him a bath when we travel.

At home, Tim likes to refer to his bath setup at "the Rolls Royce of baths" because it's customized for him and his needs...he gets the closest to the perfect bath there.  On the road, it can be a real mish-mash, depending on how well the hotel we're staying at has anticipated the needs of a special needs customer like him.

That access can range from pretty much none to some very well thought out solutions (still, not as good as home because just off the top, you know nothing away from home is customized to our situation). We've even had some, non-adapted rooms that come very close to being universally accessible just by coincidence, such as the Lindemann's Hotel we stayed at in Berlin.

Even with good bathtubs or showers and roomy bathrooms, other considerations can sometimes make this part tricky for example, marble bathroom floors. Think about lifting a 160 pound person into and out of the bath on a wet, slick marble floor. Yeah, that can be very dangerous.

Sharp corners on vanities and counters, not enough towels (we need three for Tim, one to dry, one to put on his wheelchair for transferring out of the bathroom, and one to put on the bed where I lay him down to get dressed), and tight spaces can all contribute to a lack of access or difficulties where none need to be.

Once I get a bathroom where I can get him in, the type of bathing facility and seating can also be varied and important.  There are two basic styles of adapted bathrooms...those with bathtubs and those with roll-in (or, more technically correct, walk-in) showers.

The bathtubs are usually more problematic depending on how much I have to lift Tim to get over the lip of the tub. Many have transfer benches built into them where I can sit Tim on the edge, swing his legs over the side without lifting him, then slide him over into bathing position where he can steady himself with the grab bar. Not all accessible tub bathrooms have this, some hotels give you a shower chair instead.

A roll-in shower has no barrier to block access. Theoretically, you can roll in a wheelchair for bathing but in practice, no one wants to get their chair wet. What that means is that there is usually a fold-down bench or some other type of seating that you can transfer to from your wheelchair for bathing.

All type of adapted baths or showers come with a shower head on a hose, which makes it easy to wash and rinse those parts of the body that aren't facing the shower head base.

Here are some of the bath seating arrangements we've come across and how well they work for us:


Plastic Patio Chair, like we got at the previously mentioned Lindemann's in Berlin and the apartment we rented in Cannes - Just like you'd get a Home Depot for $12.99 or so. Actually it can work pretty well in a walk-in or roll-in shower like we got in Berlin, but not as well in a standard bathtub like we got in Cannes.  It all depends on how high I need to lift Tim.


Plastic Shower Bench - a backless bench to stick in a bathtub or shower. No transfer bench attached and no back support.  It'll do but it'd be nice to have a backrest.


Plastic Shower Chair - the above bench with a backrest. We keep one in the van for emergencies. It works well enough but not perfect, though.


Transfer Bench - These work very well for bathtubs because you can seat the person outside of the tub without lifting them over the tub wall, then swing the legs over and slide the bather into place. Works almost as good as a roll-in shower for us.


...there are also portable transfer benches that work just as well.


Bathtub Swivel Chair - This is the best solution, even better than a roll-in shower, that we've found for us. The Hilton Hotel in Prague provided us with this seat. It's just about perfect. The only thing that you have to do is to place the four legs of the chair on the sides of the bathtub, swivel the seat out and seat the bather into the very supportive chair, then swivel it back in and you're ready to go.

Roll-in Shower with Bench - The easiest transfer. Just wheel the wheelchair into the shower stall, transfer the bather onto the bench and transfer them back into the wheelchair when done. The bench can be mounted on the wall, like this one...
...or portable, like the one at the top of the post, or even one that hangs on the grab bar like the PVC chair we had at the Novotel in Munich (which was a pretty awful chair but we made it work).


As you can see, there's quite a variety of solutions offered for accessible bathing in the various hotel rooms around the world. Sometimes, though, even that can't be found.  If nothing else, putting a bunch of towels on the bed and doing a sponge bath can get you through until you land at and arrive at your next destination that has the proper or adequate bathing facilities for a person with disabilities.


There's even this solution...made for travelers and sometimes derisively called a 'whore's bath'...that will work in a pinch.

Probably the biggest hurdle for most handicapped travelers is the bath situation but, as you see, that really doesn't need to be a problem. Just be flexible with your bath habits, plan ahead, call your hotel before arriving, and you should be fine.

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Wednesday, July 26, 2017

CEREBRAL PALSY STORIES: Keeping Up Squeaky Clean Appearances-Taking A Shower


Showering! It's a dirty job but everybody has to do it!...Even those individuals who are disabled like me. Since I am disabled from having had Cerebral Palsy all my life, I do have to have my dad help me in getting my weekly showering needs taken care of.
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For us, there are two important things that help make all of our lives a little easier when it comes to giving someone like me a shower. The first is that the shower in my bathroom is a roll in shower instead of a bath tub. For people with disabilities of any kind, having a roll in shower in the bathroom is much easier to work with in the long run as compared to a regular bath tub.  The second thing that makes it easier for me and my family is that we also have a shower chair for me to sit on that we can more or less easily maneuver into the shower without too much difficulty.

Another thing that I should point out about the roll in shower and the bathroom that I use in my house is that when we first into the house where my family and I live at now, the bathroom that I use for all of my bath rooming and showering needs was not fully accessible enough at that time to meet my specific bath rooming needs. Just to give you an idea as to when my family and I moved into the house we currently live at -we moved there in December of 1995 when I was 8 years old.

As I mentioned above, the bathroom that would eventually become mine to use was not fully accessible for me to use at the time when we first moved in. To overcome this obstacle of what would be an obvious remodeling job to the bathroom in order to meet my specific needs, we enlisted the help of the San Gabriel/Pomona Regional Center who provided us with a grant to help pay for the bathroom remodeling job. For the record, our house has a total of 2 bathrooms. The one that I use for my needs and another one that my parents use.



To make a long bathroom remodeling short, it was successfully remodeled pretty soon after we first moved in to meet my needs for the most part and it's pretty good to me in the 20+ years that I have been using it.

Getting back to what this post is really about though and that would be how I take a shower, when it comes to my weekly showering needs and routine.



During the  week, my routine usually begins with an initial shave, a full body scrubbing, and cleansing with help from my dad, Darryl. On Saturdays, I have what is without a doubt the most relaxing one of the week that get to have. That is because on Saturdays, my dad will give me the opportunity to have a nice relaxing spa day in the shower to start the weekend in which I do the best I can to my capabilities and or abilities to give myself a shower. The main reason why I don't get to have a spa day during the week is because there is simply just not enough time to take advantage of the benefits of having a spa day.
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When I have my Saturday spa days, I am usually able to wash my body with a wash rag consisting of the upper portions of my body including my face, arms, chest and stomach. I can also wash and scrub the upper parts of my legs right up to about to where both of my knees are. My disability with Cerebral Palsy does present some physical challenges for me in that I am pretty much unable to thoroughly wash the part of my body that my dad and I like to call the nether regions which includes the private parts on the front end of my body and the buttocks on the back end. 

Another thing that is sometimes physically challenging for me during some of my showers is that either one or both of my legs or feet will go numb from having to sit on the shower chair over a prolonged period of time. When this happens, it will usually take a while for my legs and feet to wake up and for the numbness and tingling sensations to disappear. By the time that I am transferred back into my wheelchair, the numbness and tingling sensations in my legs and feet will usually dissipate and go away once I am back in my wheelchair safe and secure.

Once the soap scrubbing with a wash rag is complete, the next of my spa day Saturdays is for me to grab the shower head that is connected to a water hose so that I can be able to rinse off the soap that is still on my body at this point. During this time that I use the shower head to rinse off my body I should also point out that just like mostly everybody else, I sometimes do sing in the shower while I rinse off just for fun and to help relax me even more than I already am at that point during my spa days.

After I finish the washing and rinsing off portions of the shower, my dad will then come back and help me with shampooing my hair and brushing my teeth with an electric tooth brush. Once that is complete my showering usually comes to an end and all that's left to do dry off and get dressed with my dad's help once again.



To help dry me off and get dressed, my dad will help me do so while I'm still in the shower. 



Once the drying off phase in the shower is finished, my 
dad will then roll me back over to my room to help me get dressed and ready for the rest of my day or night. What I wear usually depends on what time it is during the day. If I have my shower during the morning or if we have to go somewhere afterwards during the afternoons or at night, then I will usually wear my regular articles of clothing just like everybody else such as a T-Shirt, shoes, pants, shorts, leg braces and so on. If I don't have to be fully dressed to go out somewhere, then I will usually wear just my T-Shirt, some socks and a pair of boxers or briefs so that I can relax and be more comfortable during the night at home.

After I'm finished getting dressed, my dad will then transfer me back into my power wheelchair so that I can be free to roam around the house again on my own and get on with the rest of our day or night in our life until the next time my showering schedule returns. With that in mind, it's time to wrap things up and for me to get ready for the next wash, rinse and repeat cycle of my weekly showering routine.


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